Dating for separated christians
if you see or hear the “S” word, I highly recommend you run from the situation. Don’t even stand near the water, for fear of falling into the pool.
If you are not divorced yet, or the one pursuing you isn’t, you’re walking in dangerous, sinful territory.
Do you want to invest in someone who isn’t investing you?
Every relationship takes two people committed to giving more than taking. Whether you meet a man at the local sushi joint (that hasn’t happened to me, but it would be cool because I love sushi), or converse with a man online … Children could experience grace and redemption in the lives of their parents. What are other reasons you can think of to not date someone who is separated?
I think you should pray for his marriage.” She was so right. I prayed for godly counsel to help them figure out what went wrong.
I prayed for protection over their children’s hearts.
All of the biblical allowances for remarriage after a divorce relate to the “innocent” spouse in a divorce with biblical grounds.
There is no biblical allowance for remarriage for a spouse divorced for unbiblical reasons or for a spouse who caused a divorce, whether by adultery, abandonment, and/or other possible grounds.
It’s not to satisfy loneliness or have someone meet your needs. Dating is meant for two people to get to know each other with the intention of marriage. Here are 4 reasons to avoid dating someone who is separated: The person is not ready to enter a relationship that would lead to marriage.Most people going through a divorce, even when it is not their fault and even when they have biblical reasons, are usually shattered by the circumstances and not in any frame of mind to be “dating.” People don’t usually make good decisions while “on the rebound.” For a still-hurting divorced person or someone in a painful divorce process to be dating is neither wise nor prudent.The abandoned spouse may indeed be lonely, but making clear-headed, godly relationship decisions in such a situation is difficult, if not impossible.